Sometimes to surrender means giving up trying to understand … and to become comfortable with not knowing. Imagine this. You have this strong desire to push for that new job you applied for, or to make this relationship work and … what actually happens is that you are pushing it further away from you. You Read More
You can’t change what people are without destroying who they were. The butterfly effect theory states that when a butterfly moves its wings somewhere in the world it can cause a cyclone in another part of the world. And it has become, in modern times a metaphor for the existence of seemingly insignificant moments that Read More
Have you ever experienced a scenario like this: you are going above and beyond what is expected of you and you don’t even get a little ‘thank you’ or a ‘great work!’ In actual fact … you are ignored and not acknowledged. So, you work harder and put in the extra miles, in the hope Read More
I know a leader, an entrepreneur named Marcia, who many years ago caught a team member criticizing about her to a couple of other members of the team while they were making coffee. Marcia suspected that it was going on, undermining her authority and causing friction amongst the group, but this was the first time Read More
“If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere” – Frank Clark. Obstacles are an interesting concept. Obstacles are inevitable. And to be honest, unless you’re a psychic you’ll never be able to accurately predict when they’re going to pop up, or what’s going to pan out as a result. Read More