When people give you poison, it’s your choice to accept it or not. It’s not what a person is saying to you that is hurting you, it’s what you have as unresolved wounds that they happen to touch on by what they said. You are hurting yourself. I know that is us taking a whole Read More
Everything has an opposite. Just like the Yin and Yang, there is winter and summer, day and night, anima and animus, good and bad, love and hate, male and female, child and adult, and the list goes on… We are physical and we are spiritual. We are light and we are dark, which means that Read More
Nelson Mandala said courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The words took me back to a time when one of my late teachers once said that we must develop the capacity to face trouble with courage, disappointment and cheerfulness, and triumph with humility. If you are a human being, Read More
Do you avoid having challenging conversations? Regardless if they are difficult, courageous or growth conversations, we often wonder why they fail for us. When communicating this aspect, the reality of it all is that we are not prepared. We have not planned for these conversations. The below list shows some of the reasons why our Read More
If you are a human being, you face conflict. All the time. A mere 10% of conflict is due to difference of opinion and 90% is due to the wrong tone of voice. For creative ideas and genuine innovation, we need human interaction, dispute and debate. It’s necessary. And inevitable. Just think about it. You Read More